To start with, tantric massage is a full-body massage. Ideally, tantric massage therapists must be trained in one or a few schools of therapeutic massage because a proper body rub is needed for deep relaxation and as a preparation for the erotic part. The whole body and mind should be relaxed as fully as possible, and this is especially true in our times of everlasting stress and all the increasing demands of modern life. A professional tantric massage therapist should be able to feel and consequently relieve all the knots, kinks, tensions, and areas of accumulated stress in the client’s body.
Tantric massage is not just a few strokes, caresses, and erotic provocations. You should receive a proper massage to enjoy its sensual component fully. A professional sensual massage therapist should work through all your muscles first and only then introduce the erotic element into the play.
As it is sensuality-oriented, tantric massage is usually performed in an atmosphere of mystery and relaxation. The parlours will have corresponding décor, statues of tantric gods and goddesses, candles everywhere, and exotic music in the background. But even if you are inviting a mobile erotic masseuse to your place, she will bring with her tea light candles and some music-playing devices to create a relaxing ambience and accentuate the intimate nature of the massage.
Both of you must shower before and after the tantric massage session.
If you so fancy, or if the parlour or agency owner fancies, there will be a sort of tune-up before the start of the massage. It consists of greeting each other with “Namaste,” which means “from divine in me to divine in you” in Sanskrit. Then, there are breathing exercises. Breath is considered a powerful tool for changing the state of consciousness. Long, slow, deep breaths allow one to calm, centre, and let go.
Apart from that, specific breathing techniques allow one to control and direct one's sexual energy, that is, deliberately regulating the strength of sexual arousal to accumulate more of it. More significant amounts of accumulated sexual energy allow fuller and more intense release – more pleasurable orgasm, in layperson’s terms. Plus, the synchronised breath will enable partners to tune into each other, sometimes to the degree of feeling sensations and desires of the partner as one’s own.
But this is not a newbie level, and as far as we are discussing the simplified and commercialised use of tantric massage in London, it will not apply. We still like to point you towards a greater perspective, though, just in case you are a
curious and adventurous explorer.
More often than not though, these introductory tantric rituals are omitted and the masseuse will start straight from massaging your body with her hands, gradually introducing body to body massage movements, her touches and caresses becoming more provocative and sexually intended.
Having massaged all of your body, she will massage your manhood as well. There are particular techniques to be used for this final part, so it fits nicely into the tantric paradigm. For those who can stay passive during the whole tantric massage experience, paying close attention to the sensations arising, the orgasm promises to be big and bright. To get as much as possible out of a tantric massage session, it is recommended not to interfere with the masseuse’s job but to relax and go with the flow. With the blissful and delightful flow of my sensual unfolding…
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